6.28.2007
Grey Skies in Dubai
in a way, i am amused and grateful. amused because they try so hard to do it. but also grateful, because out of this desire flows out the projects that generates our company's cash flow. i think Dubai can create anything... green mountains, snow-capped hills, underwater paradise, idyllic islands, tallest buildings, lush gardens, awesome beaches... but there is one thing they cannot recreate nor buy-- blue skies! most blue skies here are photoshopped!
however much they try, when we look up, it is still all grey up there! i cannot blame it on pollution coz there is none. i can't say because there is no sea that can reflect a blue hue, coz dubai is surrounded with the Arabian Gulf. or maybe because it is reflecting the grey sands? i love grey tops, grey shoes, grey bags... but not grey skies! gloomy skies! it dampens a soul for some reason...
when you've been out here for a long time, you'd definitely wish for blue skies. it relaxes the spirit. it brings back joyful memoirs to me. it tickles my bones. it curves a smile on my face...
and... it is what our country, beloved Philippines, is rich with! all we need to do is look up...
pic 1 is Baguio skies, pic 2 is Quezon province skies and pic 3 is Boracay skies...
6.27.2007
Pinoy Kids' Play
patintero. we'd create lines using canal water (yaiks! i know! but it didn't matter then). then we'd create 2 teams with a minimum of 4 players each, each one protecting their lines of responsibility. i loved being in the middle-line, concentrating on both sides looking on the floor, ready to touch anyone who crosses my line! it is such an exciting game, until someone calls 'out!'.
chato. i loved this game! i was good in hitting the baton making the run longer for my playmate as he shouts 'cha-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-to!' until she reaches the base. but i also remembered hitting one unintentionally on the eye, making them red, and making me red too with fear that she might be blinded! i think that was my last game of chato!
tex. not the phone SMS. but the small cards which you swoosh on air using your thumb and forefinger. it took practice to ensure winnings, which my brothers generously gave me. if you are good, then your 'pamato' will be the odd one when all 3 texs cards land on the floor, then you will get all the deck of tex he betted on, otherwise, he'll get yours. there was a boy i used to play with, who kept challenging me, and ended up losing all his stacks of tex cards to me. finally, he gave up! haha!
jolens. find a good soil you can dig small holes of 3, and you're off to an exciting jolens game with a bunch of other enthusiasts! be ready to soil your fingers... muster all the strength that you have and bring them down to your thumb to execute that lashing hit to the other jolens! whew! the sight of bundles of jolens won, reflecting the sunlight used to be 'diamonds' in my sight!
taguan (hide-and-seek). from the regular 'taguan game', we came up with a less taxing 'taguan ng tsinelas' when we were so lazy to hide and just wanted to stay in a parked dilapidated unused jeepney! when we were in a more challenging mode, the 'taguan' area will cover not only 20 meters away, but even as far as the next 5 blocks!! hmmm.... we had way so much time in our hands then!
sumpit. the killer game i am so good with! get a straw-like tube, and mongo seeds, hide behind the tree or crawl under the bushes... and shoot your enemy! i know it is a dangerous play... but when we were kids, facing danger was equivalent to being adults! i don't know where i got that crooked idea...
chinese garter. the garter did not come from china, but from any lose skirt or unsued garters of our nanays. or from rubber bands connected together. then two kids will stretch them, and the other players will skip thru them, starting with the garter as low as the knees to as high as holding them up in the air with outstretched hands! variations have evolved all throught the years... but one things remained... it has always been the real test of flexibility for girls! who would have thought that our thin (then!) legs could hook up that garter held up high, and land on our two feet???
jack stones. all the girls get around, sit on the ground, and do that jack stone hand exhibitions! we were so creative in doing exhibitions that i think we have cooked up at least 20! haha! the more difficult, the higher it goes up the rank of the exhibition list! i think i got hold of a set just last year, and taught my niece a few tricks i can recall.
luksong tinik/ baka. either you just choose your feet , or your whole body as the barrier, this game has definitely brought meeting of eyebrows of my folks... what with wrong tumbles here and there! scratches here, and cries there...and yet, we kept playing the game! we just learned how to be more careful! haha!
gumamela bubbles. we didn't have the ready-made bubble-toys then. we used to sneek up at the back of a house on the next block to get loads of gumamela leaves. we then pound them, squeeze the extract and combine them with powder soap. then we get the long stems of kamias leaves, remove the leaves, create a rounded end tied firmly, and then dip onto the gumamela and soap extract-- and voila! we have the bubble toy!
sipa. who can ever forget our national game? of course, we'd have the guy's version made of steel end and the girl's version, made of cluster of rubber bands or cluster of leaves. and of course, the guy's way of doing it, and the girl's way of kicking it! haha!!! it was so much fun!
oh, the list goes on and on... whew! i can't believe we had so many games played before!!!
i asked my nephews and niece what they play nowadays. aside from my pc, others were just random games. others, rule-less. our house is at a dead-end part of our subdivision, so they have ample space to play on, unfortunately not much games to do. when i go back home, i think i have a big mission to accomplish--- play with my nephews and nieces and re-introduce the games that i believe are healthy (and cheaper) options than what they have now!
6.25.2007
Road Trip to Rabat, Morocco
Rabat is the administrative capital of Morocco, while Casablanca is the financial capital.
it was like going to Tetoan, but this time, the sun was smiling at us! the sky is soooo blue, and everywhere there is a play of green, yellow and tangerine! it was a 3-hour drive, which showcased to us the different agricultural products of morocco. we saw plantations of bananas, dates, wheat, tomatoes, and others i do not recognize, neatly lined up on plain hills. along the road are stretched of plains sans trees, covered with seemingly 'carpeted' grasses, much like the one you see in "The Sound of Music".
then, there are also rocky areas with small quaint communities reminiscent of the site location of the 'Babel' movie of Brad Pitt.
forty-five minutes away from casablanca, we had a pit-stop at a gasoline station. it's not the usual caltex or shell stops that we have in manila. it was more of a rustic tranquility enveloped in a charming pastoral setting, with yellow grasses everywhere swaying at the beat of the wind...
and there... we saw the "Filipinos" choco bar (made from spain)! it tasted good! did i get offended? nah! i'd save my angry bone on something more deserving...
ohhh, too bad it ended so soon... it has all the elements of my idea of a relaxed road trip--- unfamiliar teritorry, awesome views, blue skies, good company and my random grey matter!
6.24.2007
Hercules Cave, Tangier, Morocco
6.23.2007
You Can't Have your Cake and Eat it too!
everyday, i am exposed to people's woes, many of such are rooted from not being able to understand this truthful saying. we've always wanted things which are conflicting in nature, sending mixed signals to others and to yourself as well.
So what are some of these bittersweet scenarios?
Work scenes:
- accepting a high-paying job and yet expecting low stress level...
- opting to work overseas (even if there are other options), and yet maintains that incurable homesickness year-in, year-out...
- being in the public biz, and yet steams off anger when a part of their private life is usually feasted on...
- wanting to have a simpler and less complicated life, yet perenially complains of boredom...
- admiring a boss' charismatic ways, and yet disdains his seemingly 'softness' over corporate issues...
Between Partners:
- choosing the one person to be with, yet wanting to be with somebody else...
- getting married, and yet expecting to still enjoy the benefits of bachelorhood...
- opting to stay single (even if there are legitimate choices), and yet yearning to have a family of her own...
- wanting closure in a relationship gone sour, and yet wanting an open-end...
- admiring a partner's manliness, yet expecting him to do emasculating things... (and vice versa for ladies)...
- getting a good-looking partner, and not being prepared for the opposite sex's admiration paving the way to the green-eyed monster!
- wanting a sympathetic and sweet guy, and yet it rubs us off the wrong way when he gets emotional...
- loving his air of mystery, and yet how often we hate it when he does not talk...
And kids:
- training your children to be their own individual personalities, yet unconsciously comparing them...
- loving the 'malambing and sweet' child, and yet is frustrasted for her to be strong and assertive, and a leader in school...
and so on, and so forth...
and if God permits that both good things happen, i recon it as a great gift!!! but it should be taken more as an execption, rather than as a rule.choose the thing you want to accept, then accept its equivalent drawback, and liberate yourself from unnecessary wrinkles.... as i love to say, "you can't have it all honey!"
Cafes, Cafes, Cafes
the locals go for turkish coffee. that concentrated coffee taken in small amount, where the cafeein boosts can easily be felt in a single sip! ironically, i do not hear many of these arabs going for the 'arabica' blend....
so if coffee is your thing, come here and be pampered!
6.10.2007
Soaring Philippine Peso
Half-filled story:
"Investors are cheering as Philippine stocks climb to a record high and the economy surges ahead at the fastest pace in 17 years... The economy has expanded 6.9 % in the first quarter, the strongest since 1990. exports have grown by 13 %, the philippine stock exchange has risen 21.5% so far this year..." thus says an article in Gulf News, International page.
Half-empty story:
all these economic jargon simply means one thing for an OFW Juan dela Cruz -- strong peso, weak dollar. and weak dollar, lower remittance.
the 'booming' economy and the rising value of peso have failed to uplift the commoners. being an OFW, it is common place for us to glance at the value of peso-to-dollar which is displayed prominently at the money exchange center which we pass by everyday on our way up to the office. and the stronger peso would mean shrugging off of shoulder at the calculated difference. e.g. for those who are earning $500 (at P50), late last year they get to remit P 25,000. But now, it devaluates to P22,750 (at P45.5).
"In a strange way, we are being punished for our own success" said a briefing paper by NEDA. our manpower has been our major 'export' for the past 10 years. there are about 8 million Filipinos (10% of the population) working overseas, wherein just last year, there was a record of $12.8 billion sent as remittance. and about 40 million people or almost half of the population, depend on remittances to pay for basic commodities.
the effect on dollar value is fast, but the effect on basic commodities and salaries in the philippines is hardly ever felt. prices still continue to soar, salaries do not change pushing more pinoys overseas, which, if the trend will continue, will mean devaluation of dollar.
when will it strike a balance? when will pinoys once again enjoy a complete family and not opt to work away from their loved ones? i don't know. economics used to be simple in college under Solita Monsod... can someone enlighten me here (in layman's term please?)...
6.05.2007
Strategic Planning the TMJ Way!
THE STRATEGISTS:
T - the bull
M- the CPU
J - the creative juice
PLACE: GRAND HYATT
METHODOLOGY: SERIOUS COFFEE TALK
hooray! i have an idea!!!
THIS IS HOW YOU
THIS IS HOW YOU
DEFEAT YOUR
COMPETITION: TIC-TAC-TOE!
6.04.2007
Typically UAE
olfactory exercise - different race, different smell! starting off when you land at the Dubai airport... must be the food that they eat, and their hygiene. this is something i haven't gotten used to even until now... and i'm proud to say that Pinoys here are known as very clean and hygienic, so you will see that pinoys are given priority when it comes to service-oriented posts.
call to prayers - five times a day, thru public speakers, you will hear the chant of the call to prayer which starts at 4am! before, it used to awaken me and even scare me... but now, it's just but normal. malls use the PA system for this, while for outside, all mosques are equipped with public speakers with sound loud enough to be heard by everyone! also, prayer rooms is a norm for all public places here. plus, for fridays, they really make it a day for prayer, with most of the public places being open only at 2pm. i wish we could place the same amount of importance to prayers and church life in manila...
british influence - you can see much of the british influence here. for our radio ad wayback 2002, the agency stressed on using a voice talent with brit accent. for regular conversations, common words that i encountered here are "to let" (for rent), "take away" (take out), "from here" (dine in), "signal" (traffic light), "timings" (schedule), "madam' (ma'am) etc. the influence can also be seen on the way the brits are given the preferential positions in companies. so where are the americans? i have not met a lot of them in the industry circle, but there are many in our church.
mobile phone calls - the calls always start with "hi, how are you?" even if you've spoken with the person thrice that day! also, our mobiles here (not called cellphones) is a like a part of our body already, bringing it around, even if we just go to the toilet (CR). the people here are accustomed to calling you straight on your mobile rather than on company landlines, especially if you're in a service-orineted industry like ours. plus, SMS texting has the same charge as 1 min call, so people call rather than send a text message.
addresses - when you are finding your way here, you better get hold of a landmark because most establishments do not have the typical address where there is number, street and area. why not? maybe because the road name is in arabic which is difficult to memorize, or in nos (e.g. 34 St. Community 138). only major roads command space in our memory! i've also noticed that most companies here uses P.O. Box for their office addresses.
ladies and family first - oh, ladies are given priorioty in almost everything (banking, bus queue, dining, etc). there are designated "family and ladies days" and "families only areas" so that the men will not intermingle with the ladies. people usually go out together as a family! i guess it's because they have the logistics to do this.
men holding hands - i used to think they were gays!!! but get used to men holding hands here.. be they locals, indians, pakistanis. and the locals do the nose to nose greeting, matched with a 'tsk tsk' sound and pouting on the lips! on the other hand, when we pinays do our holding hands thing and other cosy gestures (which is common in the philippines among girls), we get this questiong stares! haha!
courtesy greetings - get used to people being friendlier here. 'salamalaykum' is common greeting, to which you answer 'alaikum asalam' (and not 'malaykusayo!!!). they smile at you, greet you and may even talk to you. in manila, i used to be so 'suspicious' when someone talks to me, but here, just feel free to smile and greet back.
weekdays and weekends - for many, work days have long break from 1-4 pm, but some have already adapted the western straight shift. and for off days, start to switch your weekend mode to fri and sat, instead of sat-sunday! may be confusing at first, but in the long run, you'll get the hang of it.
shopping mall timings - usually on weekends, they are open until 12 midnight, with the cinemas open til 130am! the crowd usually thickens at 6pm... they are really nocturnal people!construction cranes - it's everywhere! even dubbed as the national bird of UAE! with 90% of the world's cranes here in dubai, what do you expect?
writing of date - it is done using the day/month/year format as opposed to what we know as month/day/year. so it will be confusing at first. to be safe, write the shortened version of the month.
national costumes-- you'd identify most by how they dress up here. locals, indians, pakitanis, iranians, palestinians, normally wear their country clothes. it's like UN Day everyday! haha!
AC (aircon) - from office to flats, it is a must! so even if temp reaches 48 deg celcius, as long as we are indoors, it is no problem. the malls have used also a double-glass-door strategy which i think is basically used to temper the heat when it gets so hot outside. this helps to avoid glass breakage from temperature difference on the opposite sides of the door. but then, i also see this in the doors they use for toilets which are already inside the mall.... hmmm... maybe they are just used to having 2 doors... oh well..
laws can change overnight- oh, very normal! no need for the long discussions with senate and congress (none of those bodies here)... this week, this is the rule governing the visit visa holders, tomorrow it can be changed. the week after, another change. whew!
complaints complaints complaints - in our industry, i would be surprised if a weekend passes by without a complaint! people are very assertive of their rights and privileges as customers because they get immediate actions from the company and even to any government agency they can involve. from marketing promotions, to height restrictions on our attractions, to unfriendly service staff, to as bizarre as non-compliance (daw!) to building codes! and they are impatient in waiting for answers (thus, we need our mobiles always turned on and battery-loaded!!!) at first, it really terrified us, coz they always drop the phrase "i will call the police!" but then in the long run, we also learned the tricks of the trade.
police police and CIDs (civilian police)- very much respected here! and mind you, they are present in all places and they really do random inspections! in sharjah, a police/CID can put you into detention if you are found walking around in a dark place at night with a guy who is not your husband. so beware! and note also that it pays to have a police friend in this country, especially if they already start barking in arabic!
tissue tissue tissue - it's in all the toilets, and it's free! and i'm sure the environmentalists will be awed at the amount of tissue being used everyday! the toilet cleaners even use this, instead of the washable mops! crazy!
groceries - almost all things come in BIG package! well, i think it is only in the philippines where sachet-ization has happened! also, you will notice here how people are so 'galit with plastic bags!'. as in 3-4 items only in one plastic! soon, i'm so sure, they'll learn of cost-cutting! haha!
no National Bookstore-type - as in nada!!!! this is one of our frustrations here. if you need office supplies, the choices are limited in the mall. you can go to locations outside the malls, but they are inaccesible. i wonder how the parents buy stuff for their kid's school needs? they have bookstores, but not the complete National Bookstore types.
ahhh... those are just a few of the things you have to adjust to. well, for some items, if you can't beat them, join them!
6.03.2007
Close to You
i am not proud about this, but i admit i was not used to patronizing our romance films before-- what with the infusion of slapstick comedy, unrealistic plots, prolonged drama moments which isn't complete without a 'sampalan' scene, and the musicals!!! oh my! the only film i can remember liking in the 90s genre was "May Minamahal" which stars Aga Mulach and Aiko Melendez. for me, this is classic! but recently, i've noticed how tastefully Filipino movies are being made. the acting is so natural, the screenplay is well written and the cinematography is just superb, which usually becomes the platform for showing the interesting sites in our beloved Philippines.
so right now, i anticipate the latest offings from Star Cinema or Viva or Regal. jologs as it may sound, but i am not ashamed to say, the "Yes! the filipino can!"
here are my other fave romance Tagalog films... enjoy the movies!!!
1. Don't Give Up on Us (Piolo Pascual and Judy Ann Santos)
2. Blue Moon (Christopher De Leon, Eddie Garcia)
3. Dahil May Isang Ikaw (Aga Mulach and Regine Velasquez)
4. May Minamahal (Aga Mulach and Aiko Melendez)
The Heat is On!
3. the Dubai Summer Surprises (DSS) mascot, Modhesh, starts to appear on the ads and almost everywhere in Dubai
10. when our fave outdoorsy spots are not as interesting anymore except for the water parks e.g. parks, beaches, al fresco dining, desert safari, mountain road trip, etc.
whew, the things we have to embrace.... and miss.. when the heat is on! and summer is here to stay until middle of october....